This engagement took place some time back and i totally forgot to upload it. It was a grand event for my cousin Jana, tis is a must especially since she is the last child in her family. Congrats Jana, welcome to this new phase of your life. Now you know how it feels like to be engaged and yess be prepared for anything and everything

. What are my thoughts on engagement, is it just a tradition as in customary sake, or to avoid nosy relatives from talking?

I must say to me there are 3 aspects about it emotionally, mentally and economically.
Y emotions because this is no longer the bf and gf stage where u quarell and u break up then u patch up. The relationship is fragile yet special than ever, this is the period where you must learn to control your emotions should you face challenges in your relationship. Dun let your emotions get the better of u.
Mentally, you must widen your perspective and mentality that engagement means preparation for marriagehood. At the back of your mind, you should realize that once you are engaged there are responsibilities, commitment and expectations that you may at times find pressurizing.
Last of all peeps, learn to save money for you big day. Whoever said this is the easiest part unless kahwin semua sponsor oklah kan

. Along the way there are gonna be setbacks and temptations hence determination and willingness to work hard is important.
I wish all couples that are going to enter the engagement hood and still in this phase all the best in their relationship. Oh yes, there will be ups and downs peeps but always pray to the one above mudah mudahan dijauhkan.